Thursday, August 27, 2015

Let's Talk Grandparenting Ministry - the Single Grandmother

Image result for clipart of grandmothersAs I mentioned a couple days ago, I was recently invited to be part of the Legacy Coalition and will be working with some wonderful people to engage churches, so they engage, equip and encourage grandparents to pass on a heritage of faith to their grandchildren. 

At our meeting, I was able to hear from a number of leaders in family ministry; one of which was Cathy Jacobs from Pass the Legacy. She spoke about the challenge facing the single grandmother; and today I'm delighted to share with you some of what she had to say.

Cathy said single grandmothers struggle with how they become single - they are sad and depressed when they become single due to the death of their husband and often feel bitter, angry, broke and even experience shame when they become single through divorce. Cathy said there is another "type" of single grandmother as well; the grandmothers who are "single" because of "absent" grandfathers - the ones who do not engage.

If we as the church are going to engage, equip and encourage all grandparents in our ministries, we have to also understand some of the special needs of those grandmothers who are single. We need to invest in them by coming alongside and providing support and encouragement. Cathy suggested we look at building a community of grandparents to do exactly this.

In 1980 there were 40 million grandparents in the USA; in 2010 there were 80 million grandparents. With the statistics Linda Ransom Jacobs provided, we can safely assume at least 35% of these grandparents are single from divorce and more from death of a spouse. 

Of course, not all of these grandparents are believers, but even so, we are talking about millions of grandparents who can be engaged, equipped and encouraged to pass on a heritage of faith to their grandchildren! We need to empower the grandparents - both couples and single grandparents - in our ministries, so they will step up and pass on a heritage of faith to their grandchildren; it is the most important thing they can do!

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