Thursday, July 21, 2016

Let's Talk Grandparenting Ministry - the Single Grandmother

As I mentioned yesterday, last year I had the wonderful opportunity to hear a number of people talk about Grandparenting Ministry and what it might look like in a church. Cathy Jacobs, from Pass the Legacy, spoke about the challenge facing the single grandmother; and today I'm delighted to share with you some of what she had to say.

Cathy said single grandmothers struggle with how they became single - they are sad and depressed when they become single due to the death of their husband and often feel bitter, angry, broke and even experience shame when they become single through divorce. Cathy said there is another "type" of single grandmothers as well; the ones who are "single" because of "absent" grandfathers - the ones who do not engage.

If we as the church are going to engage, equip and encourage all grandparents in our ministries, we have to also understand some of the special needs of those grandmothers who are single. We need to invest in them by coming alongside and providing support and encouragement. Cathy suggested we look at building a community of grandparents to do exactly this.

In 1980 there were 40 million grandparents in the USA; in 2010 there were 80 million grandparents. With the statistics Linda Ransom Jacobs provided, we can safely assume at least 35% of these grandparents are single from divorce and more from death of a spouse. 

Of course, not all of these grandparents are believers, but even so, we are talking about millions of grandparents who could be engaged, equipped and encouraged to pass on a heritage of faith to their grandchildren! And just think how your Children's Ministry would be impacted if grandparents were passing faith to their grandchildren, were praying for your Children's Ministry and getting involved as volunteers!

We need to empower the grandparents - both couples and single grandparents - in our ministries, so they will step up and pass on a heritage of faith to their grandchildren; it is the most important thing they can do and one of the most important things the church can do as well!

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