
Who are the people in this group, you ask? The answer is;
grandparents. Now before you tell me your church has a ministry to and for
grandparents, let me ask you if this “ministry” is more than Bible study
classes, get-together, luncheons and hymn sings, because there is a significant
difference between a “Senior Saints” Ministry and a Grandparenting Ministry. A
Senior Saints Ministry primarily functions for those who are retired (over the
age of 65) and is mostly focused on fellowship – both excellent things for a
church to do, but not a Grandparenting Ministry, which focuses upon those who
are grandparents (the average age for a person to become a grandparent for the
first time is 47 . . . yes, 47!) and strives to engage, equip and encourage
them to pass on a heritage of faith to their grandchildren. Do you see the
difference? Does your church truly have a Grandparenting Ministry?
Most churches have ministry to young parents, parents of
elementary age children, parents of teens and even possibly parents of
college-age children, but once they become grandparents, there tends to be
nothing for them until they are old enough to retire – almost for 20 years; and
then it is often focused upon fellowship, not passing on a heritage of faith to
their grandchildren.
I
remember about thirty years ago when there really was not a “Children’s Ministry”;
most churches had a Director of Christian Education who oversaw Christian Ed
for everyone in the church. This person ordered quarterlies, handed them to the
teachers and this was pretty much all there was to Children’s Ministry. But,
then it all began to change as people in the church began to understand how
important it was to reach children – most people make the decision to follow
God before the age of 13 – and publishers began to provide resources to equip
churches to truly develop effective Children’s Ministries which were focused
upon reaching children and helping them begin a walk of their own with Jesus.
Today,
churches would not even think of not having an effective Children’s Ministry –
and it is often one of the areas of the church which has the most space and the
largest portion of the budget.
Grandparenting
Ministry today is where Children’s Ministry was thirty years ago. Churches are
just beginning to understand the need for effective Grandparenting Ministry;
ministry which engages grandparents – gets them off their “rocking chairs” and
away from the golf courses – and equips them to be able to pass on their faith
to their grandchildren. Grandparents are second only to parents in the ability
to influence their grandchildren; they need to understand this and be
challenged to get about the work of passing on a heritage of faith – there is
nothing more important for them to do.
And,
when the grandparents in your church are engaged and equipped to pass on a
heritage of faith to their grandchildren, your Children’s Ministry will
benefit! The children in your ministry will have the influence of godly
grandparents impacting their lives! They will grow in their walk with Jesus!
The grandparents will care very much about what happens in the Children’s
Ministry. They will become some of your strongest prayer warriors. Many of them
will get involved as volunteers. They will bring a wisdom, experience and
passion to your ministry which will not come from anywhere else. Yes, your
Children’s Ministry will benefit greatly from having engaged and equipped
grandparents in your church!
So,
how do you engage and equip the grandparents in your church? How do you begin a
truly effective Grandparenting Ministry? One great way to begin is to connect
with the Legacy Coalition. Their mission is to help churches engage and equip
grandparents and to help grandparents understand their God-given responsibility
to pass a heritage of faith to their grandchildren. You will find out how to
connect with the Legacy Coalition – and learn more about what a Grandparenting
Ministry could look like in your church at this link.
Grandparenting
Ministry will be “coming” to churches across the country and around the world –
just imagine the difference this would make in your church and Children’s
Ministry!
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